Stop Trying. There You Are.

Somebody recently gave me a compliment.  She said I’m always really caring and thoughtful. This came as a complete surprise to me, as I usually find myself feeling selfish and crabby. I got to thinking about it, though, and realized there are times when...
A Culture of Risk

A Culture of Risk

One day I ordered a stock of printed folders for my boss. This wasn’t small potatoes, either;  this single order cost upwards of $1000 and I ordered them thinking I had done everything I needed to to proof and double check them. The order came back and even...
I Suck At Golf.

I Suck At Golf.

37 years old, and I’d never played a full game of golf until yesterday. I was invited by a guy who could best be described as a cousin-in-law.  Travis, who had exiled himself to the golf course during his wife’s baby shower, invited a bunch of us buddies...
Are Men Broken?

Are Men Broken?

Over the last few days, the Universe has been delivering to me a conspicuously high number of instances where people are extolling feminism, a women’s virtue and role in society, and how we as men relate to women.  Someone I know even argued that the majority of...